Kissing techniques vary greatly… so does the appreciation or dislike for these different techniques. After interviewing hundreds of men and women on the subject over a seven year period, I’ve come up with some general findings that I’d like to share with you.
Who is Kissable?
Men and women both thought the idea of kissing someone who was clean, had beautifully full and shapely lips, who was attractive, and who possessed a great smile and nice teeth was a “10” on the kissable scale. Guys also felt that if a woman seemed open and friendly, she was more likely to be the recipient of a romantically spontaneous kiss than a woman that seemed uptight. Read the rest of this entry »
It never gets boring kissing your steady but kissing under the mistletoe is always a little bit special. Since you are probably well acquainted with one another’s kissing techniques, there isn’t much extra advice you need. A holiday kiss is always nice if entered in to in the interest of fun, rather than passion. Remember you are at a party under mistletoe, not in a private place with the lights down low. Your kiss should take that in to account. French kissing is fine as long as you don’t get carried away. Kissing on the neck or face is also nice. But don’t paw each other and don’t turn the mistletoe kiss in to a make out session. Kiss like you normally would but keep it lighthearted and fun. If you haven’t french kissed before it may be fun to give it a try under the magic of the mistletoe. Whatever you do, make sure it is fun and make sure that you are ready to rejoin the party when it is over. Read the rest of this entry »
If this isn’t your first date, chances are you have kissed before (if not, see the tips for kissing a crush), so a turn under the mistletoe shouldn’t be that frightening. But that doesn’t mean it isn’t special. A mistletoe kiss with a new steady can be something you will never forget. For this reason, it should be a little different than your other kisses. Holding each other close is a definite must. Start kissing the same as you have in the past. Play with each others hair or run your fingers up and down one another’s back. If you have never french kissed before, now may be a good first time. If you aren’t ready to french kiss yet, try what we Canadians call a “Quebec kiss”. This type of kiss is a shorter, dryer version of the french kiss with only a little bit of tongue playing. If you aren’t ready for that either, try spicing up the kiss with a little bit of fun, playfully tickle your partner to signal that it is over or end with a gentle kiss on the nose or forehead.
Super Savvy Tip:
Stay in each other’s arms even after the kiss is over and talk. Talk about the kiss and how nice it was, talk about the party and how fun it is, and then lean in for another quick smooch.
This may very well be the most exciting type of kiss there is. It is so full of promise and good natured lusty feelings. You don’t know this person well enough to love them yet, but you sure feel something so strong toward them that it makes you breathless. Fight that feeling. To make this kiss memorable you are going to have to breath. It is probably still too early to try french kissing, but making it a little wet won’t hurt. Start with a gentle closed mouth peck and move on to something a little more inviting – open mouth but no tongue. Try to keep your lips soft, not too puckered, and make sure that your arms are around your partner. A couple of kisses in a row is a nice idea. Try not to let this kiss linger too long or you may find yourself making out. Making out with a crush too quickly has spelled doom to many could-have-been romances. Make sure the kiss has a definite end and that you both stay on the same planet as the rest of the party-goers. Read the rest of this entry »
This is an excellent chance to test the chemistry between you. The kiss you give in this situation should fall somewhere between what you’d give to a bud and what you would give to a full fledged crush. Think short and sweet with a hint of passion. Also, make sure that there is some other body contact. Putting your arms around each other is nice, but if it seems to be too much, holding hands works too. Whatever you do, do not venture in to the realm of french kissing, but opening your mouth ever so slightly adds an element of intimacy. This kiss should last more than a second but less than 15 seconds. Too long and you run the risk of sending an undeniable “I am in to you!” message. Too short and you may give the person an unintended brush off. Read the rest of this entry »
This one depends on how good a friend we are talking about. Is it just another member of your group? A quick peck on the cheek or lips will do fine. Is it a good bud? You might want to linger for an instant longer. All kisses to friends should be closed mouth kisses – you don’t want anybody getting the wrong idea. No need to put your arms around each other, but if you are good friends there is also no harm in this. For a funny little variation on the friendly kiss, grab a buddy by the head and shower them with little kisses all over the face, like you would a baby. Sweet! Read the rest of this entry »
Any man who can drive safely while kissing a pretty girl is simply not giving the kiss the attention it deserves. ~Albert Einstein
A kiss is a lovely trick designed by nature to stop speech when words become superfluous. ~Ingrid Bergman
A kiss can be a comma, a question mark or an exclamation point. That’s basic spelling that every woman ought to know. ~Mistinguett (Jeanne Bourgeois), Theatre Arts, December 1955
Is not a kiss the very autograph of love? ~Henry Finck
A kiss, when all is said, what is it?
A rosy dot placed on the “i” in loving;
‘Tis a secret told to the mouth instead of to the ear.
Kissing is a means of getting two people so close together that they can’t see anything wrong with each other. ~Rene Yasenek Read the rest of this entry »
When your kissing your girl/boy, just stop, smile, rest your foreheads together and look into their eyes for a few seconds :) dont fake this coz it makes u look really stupid though. and make sure your partner is the head-resty type just to prevent headbutting. big anti-climax girls.
tell them the sweetest thing that is on your mind then go right back at it, they will have an ultimately intense feeling of happiness that the kiss becomes amazing no matter how stiff a kisser they are. Its great for a first long kiss when you know neither of you are ready for a long pash, but want to make it memorable.
My boy did this with me at the park near the beach at sunset on our first single date. one of those things u cant forget coz its such a sweet moment :)
even if i did dump him a few months later. oh well!
Its not a secret that even thinking of kissing a girl can get us – Guys , so horny that you just want to do that right now and waste no more time! Im sure you know the feeling when you want to kiss this girl but you simply cant take that step for some kind of reasons what you really cant even understand yourself. Its said many times that girls kind of like to do this way better then us and its a lot harder for us to make that move first and kiss the girl. If you dont want to be one of those who cant take action then here are few tips for you:
* Just ask her!
If you know her enough well then why just dont ask it to her? She wont bite- thats for sure , so swallow all your fears and JUST DO IT . Yeah for sure it might freak her out , but why not to risk? You live only once so why not… If you actually do this try NOT to rush with anything and do it all slowly so both of you enjoy the moment . If its really first time with this girl then just give her normal kiss, dont stick your tongue right in her ;)
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Man and woman are born to love, marry and beget children. Woman is so physically constituted that she is the one who bears the child. Man, on the other hand, is given the duty of being the protector of his wife and, after they are born, of his children. Therefore, he must always be the one who takes the initiative. He must be strong, he must be willing, he must be physically able to take care of his charges, He must be the aggressor.
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