Top 10: Secrets To A Great First Kiss
Number 10 Do it in private
Privacy is key. A big mistake that too many guys make is going for a kiss in the wrong situation. Women want that first kiss to be special, and theyd prefer to share the moment with you and you alone. So if youre out somewhere social and you feel like the time is right, take her to a back room or, even better, to a completely different, more personal location.
Number 9 Know when to pull out
Theres no better way to let her know that youre a catch than by being the first to call it quits. Most guys go for the gold on the first kiss… and they rarely end up getting it. By being the one to slow down, youll show her that youre in control… and most importantly, youll leave her dying for more.
Number 8 Feel her out
When you feel the moment is right, reach over and touch her hair while youre talking and make a comment about it. Say, Your hair looks so soft, and lightly touch the tips of it. If she smiles, reach back over and start stroking it again, but this time shift your glance between her lips and her eyes a couple of times. If she lets you keep touching her hair, you know that shes ready to be kissed.
Number 7 Be a tease
Newsflash: Theres nothing that women love more than to be teased, so let her know whos in control by driving her crazy with your lips. Go in like youre going to kiss her, then at the very last second, pull away and flash her a mischievous grin. Use this sparingly to keep her turned on and on her toes.
Number 6 Ease into it
Still feeling a little nervous about going in for the kill? Ease into it by leaning in and smelling her neck. Take a big sniff and say, Mmm… you smell good. Then slowly brush your nose and cheek along hers as you pull your head back to make eye contact with her. When your eyes lock, close them and go for it.Ravish her like a brute and dip her like a gent…
Number 5 Show some passion
Every woman longs to be ravished, so why not make her fantasy come true? As youre kissing her, reach back behind her and pull her head back by gently grabbing the hair right above her neck. Slowly kiss your way down her neck and give her a playful bite, then pull back slightly and breathe heavily on her neck and in her ear. Make sure your pants are securely fastened, because at this point shell be trying her hardest to take them off!
Number 4 Dip her down
If the mood is right, add some sensuality and chivalry to your first kiss by gently dipping her down, ballroom-style. Theres no better way to make her feel like shes with a powerful and confident man. Do it right, and shell never forget the moment.
Number 3 Use your hands
Women love to be caressed, especially while theyre being kissed. Starting above her ear, run your fingers through her hair, down to her neck and all the way down her back. Then slowly slide your hand back up again. Use both hands, and alternate between using your whole hand and just the tips of your fingers to give her an experience she wont soon forget.
Number 2 Spice it up
Once initial contact has been made, spice it up a bit with some variety. Move from short, soft kisses into longer, deeper ones, then back again… and dont use your tongue any more than she does. Change the angle by moving your head to the other side, and alternate between sucking on her lower and upper lip. Be sure to stop to breathe after every few kisses. These little moves will let her know that you know exactly what youre doing.
Number 1 Explore her body
When youre ready to really turn up the heat, kiss her on her neck and move your lips slowly up to her earlobes and give a light nibble. Dont be surprised when she starts breathing heavily.






